Trying to compare intelligence and gender doesn't typically yield much in the way of productive discussion, but sometimes research comes along that makes opening this particular can of worms worth it.
Decades of research show unequivocally that men and women are equal in general intelligence (IQ), but that isn't the case when it comes to emotional intelligence (EQ). There are subtle, and not so subtle, differences in men's and women's expression and understanding of emotions that must be explored and understood.
Gender is a common place for people to assign labels around emotion. Such generalizations have pegged women as everything from the “fairer sex” to overly emotional, and men from emotionally aloof to explosive. You'll find that none of these platitudes are true.